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Sunday, October 11, 2009

Listen to Them


This was one of my student when i was doing my second practical last year. Every time, when i saw this one photo of him, it's creating a smile on my face. He is very young but i can tell you that he is just so energetic and playful. I love to teach my kids about discipline, yet still very concern about their needs and when they talk and ask something, i rather listen and answer them. Their stories, even most of the time, flying high beyond our imagination, we should always listen to them. Some adult rather say, they didn't know anything and sometimes neglecting those words their kids want to share. And according to the fact from the psychologies theories, this situation can make the kids feel rejected and yes, worse than this, its going to develop as a "toxic stress". A terms that was made popular by Eric Knudsen from Center of Developing Child, Harvard in one of his article review. I won't need to explain about the terms since it was obviously clear for us to understand the meaning.

We always make a different to the younger generations!

Sit and think.
Thanks for reading.

4 comments:

carolchs said...

Thanks for sharing this.
Even though I've been around them (little kids) for awhile now...sometimes, work not directly linked to teaching and educating makes me forget how to deal with their every day antics.

TIMADANG said...

I agree with the basic development of a discipline is new to the people about the meaning of life, sometimes we are surprised when a slave is our fiscal adults as we will not believe this is happening.. now who should be responsible in this case certainly father and mother..seingat saya masa saya budak dulu saya sering di tegur oleh datuk dan ibubapa supaya jangan menyampuk dengan cerita orang tua-tua walau apa sekalipun tidak boleh!!

so..that is the basis of our discipline.

Jelvy Jae said...

thnks chegu carol and timadang for commenting on this post.yup, it was so true that parents are the center for disciplining their own kids.and yes, this is still a new thing in our country, Malaysia. but let us hope by time, we can increase the level of awareness regarding this matter in the society. if, we're not doing anything, im not sure how the country dealing to find the future leaders.

|.a.r.i.e.z.a.| said...

cute lil boy! :) he made my smile too!

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